Hi
I feel your hurt in your message
I think you were very brave to end the relationship.
You say you gave him many chance and set boundaries and he didn’t abide by any.
He obviously needs is own time alone to reflect on his erratic behavior and life choices.
People can be in denial of their addictions and when confronted always redirect the blame of their actions onto others
You are a mother of three children. (I am the same)
My advice to you would be to take this time to self heal, focus on your own mental wellbeing and most of all on your children.
Don’t look back in anger or forward in fear but around us in awareness!!
We all want the best intentions for our loved ones. My husband is a heroin addict and I have gave him a month to stabilise or il continue my life without him
Life is too short to be wasted.
Know your worth and don’t let any person devalue your worth.
Stay strong x