Hey
Wow I get alot of identification there.
My wife and I lost a child around 4 years ago and I’m sure that’s where my prescription drugs abuse really took off – the trauma you have both been through will have a profound impact for sure. It sounds like he is using alcohol to martial emotions, I know I used external things to – even today (food for example)
It sounds like he needs to talk to someone first
Do you also have support?