I’m sorry to hear about your husband and for you too.
Can I ask a question……why do they do it???? I don’t understand.
Well I’ve made the move that I am insisting on being just friends. He replied actually saying to me he can’t cope with me and wants to be just friends but at the minute needs space!!!! OMG HELLO!!!
Anyway 24 hours later I find him asleep on my sofa that’s the other thing he just sleeps all the time!
I refused to engage in anything intimate which tbh he struggles with anyway but I refuse to give even a kiss on the cheek.
His friend message me and said he will soon be banging on my door! I said I don’t want him to he’s lied and I’ve been married to a liar and refuse to be in a relationship with another liar! I said you don’t shit on your own doorstep (meaning don’t ask my friend for drugs and not expect me to know!)
He must have relayed this message but instead of asking what I mean he ignores it.
Is all I keep doing when he texts or I see him is remind myself of that little white bag I found which I still don’t know what to do with!
The trouble is my cousin is an alcoholic and a cocaine user the alchol is the worst and he’s so poorly he is dying – spends most weeks in hospital and then discharging himself – my auntie is broken and I’m currently trying to help him so I really don’t need a partner who could go the same way.
It’s such a shame I love him but I can’t bear to be with someone who’s an addict and to think I gave him the benefit of the doubt and chose to believe he didn’t do it! I hate liars
How to approach this is difficult as I know he run a mile and deny I feel like I’m playing mind games with him but I want him to admit it to me