Hi Kate- I’m so sorry to hear about your son too. The unkindness after all we’ve done for them is just unbelievable! It took me a good 8-10 years to finally stop doing so much. I thought that is what loving mothers do. I haven’t given him money in a long time. I live in fear that he will become homeless too and I will have to be strong because he will have to face the consequences of his life. It’s so hard to live this life every day as their parents. When they have a good moment, we’re so relieved and remember what it feels like to breathe and live like normal people. I must admit, I’m jealous of people who do. You’re not alone, which is why I’m here too. I feel so alone sometimes, but I can gain strength just from knowing that at least someone understands the craziness we live. I’m here for you anytime you want to reach out.. hugs. ❤