I would completely detach myself from him. If he is pleased with your help your probably enabling him
My husband smoked heroin, I found out this summer. We have three children.
He asked for help and I did help him. But in the process I forgot about my own well being and suffered.
My children suffered. My focal point was on my husband
I felt like I was on constant surveillance.
Couldn’t sleep, I was emotional exhausted
He continued to use and spent our income on the drug
So I decided to leave him.
Addiction destroys everything in its path and the best form of loving support is detachment
It’s been a week since he is gone
He know has to fight for his family back, they only thing that is seperating us is heroin
You must never let alone devalue your worth. You will become a shadow of yourself
Think of your unborn child and your future. You must be in good health to look after your child
It’s a very hard decision to separate but I solely did it to safe guard my children and possibly safe his life in the process
Be strong, don’t be afraid of others reactions. You cannot lead your life by following others values and norms
My advice to you would be to detach yourself while supporting him from afar, take time to heal and focus on your pregnancy
Good luck