Hi – I just wanted to comment as reading these is so familiar to me. I’m in the same situation – partner who says he’s going to stop and then relapses, I don’t think he really accepts he has a problem yet. He thinks it’s my problem and I’m the one with the issues… but it’s the lies that are the worst. I am questioning if it is my fault/my issues even though I know deep down it’s not. We have a baby also – he’s a great dad most of the time but I can’t deal with the relapses and mostly the lies and deceptive behaviour!!
