I totally sympathise with you both. Its so hard to help an addict when they won’t even try to help themselves. Its so frustrating to think you see a bit light at the end of the tunnel. They get on their feet for a week or two, then its back to square one. Its always going to be the case in my opinion, until they decide themselves that enough is enough. Personally I find it exhausting, time after time, my son relapses. It’s very disheartening and hurting.
We’ve started to withdraw our support a bit to help ourselves as our mental and physical health is suffering, not to mention the financial toll that mounts up.
A very difficult thing to do when you love them. You can only do so much, the rest is up to them. Accept as much advice and support that’s offered. Good luck and God bless you . Lx