Hi All, well we made the 12 week clean date!
I am so bloody happy. It’s been blood sweat and tears to get here.
We started couples counselling 5 weeks ago and now it’s down to one week us, then next him alone. We said we will keep this going until Christmas at least.
His drug counselling is nearly finished and they then move him onto groups counselling sessions. He needs these and so far responds really well to it all. I would never ever have said he was the kind of bloke who would take to any sort of therapy. Shows he needed it and still does.
12 weeks ago I was so terrified and had myself thrown into this new world and I hated him. If I’m honest I didn’t think we would make it. I was so sure he was relapse and give up on us.
He has admitted to having some really dark days but his boys have pushed him through it. I have never been more grateful in my life for my sons.
This fight isn’t over and I will never let my finger off the pulse now! Will always be on guard and watching. But I am def able to sleep better at night
Don’t give up hope!!!