Hi,
I’m so glad that you have found this blog and are getting support from the people on it. If you would like more help please contact us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people who are dealing with the addictive behaviours of a partner or family member. If you contact us I can put you in touch with one of our trained and experienced people who you could talk with and maybe get some answers. They would also be able to tell you what other support there is locally for you.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
Best wishes to you.