Hi I’m okay thank you, it’s not been easy but taking things day by day. He broke down in April during lockdown told me he’s got a problem with it and he can’t stop and that he needs help. Tbh I knew he did as was seeing how frequently he was using and any excuse to drink & take coke. We sat down he deleted all the dealers numbers went well for over a week then he said he’s just getting a few beers he was then drinking a few times a week I said you can’t do that instead you need to cut it all out. He smoked weed up until last year but quit since then the coke has got worse. Over time he must of got better at hiding it or doing it once I was asleep coz he wasn’t eating and he’s eyes didn’t look right i confronted him many times he denied. We had a row before last week he left then came back then left again to go on this recent binge. He’s only just got into the grips of addiction he hasn’t yet tried to get help he’s mum told him you have a problem he said I haven’t she told him she will go docs with him etc. Me and him haven’t spoke since this recent binge so I don’t know what he’s thinking or feeling he has a lot going for him I know he wouldn’t want this life but he’s trapped and I’m not sure whether I can help him. Well done on trying to quit yourself and recognising it takes a lot of courage.
