Hi so sorry to hear about you’re sisters struggles with this evil drug. You should never feel guilty you did all you could to help her she just didn’t want to be saved, it’s so painful isn’t it. I feel like im grieving the person he was he’s as good as dead he hasn’t been in touch with me or the kids 10 days now not long I know part of me thinks he’s glad we’re out the way so he can use. I’m in such a predicament to help or not to help I don’t think I have the time nor the patience to put myself through it trying to help him, I’ve got 3 kids and 10 weeks pregnant my plate is full. I’ve given myself a month to have a break to deal with this situation and put me and the kids first I’ll reach out in 3 weeks see if he wants to have a chat and say we need to sort contact with kids. I’ll ask him then how does he feel with he’s life now does he wish things were different does he think he has a problem then lastly I’ll ask if he needs help if he says no I will tell him he will not be with me or back home until he’s clean. I hope your sister is safe & well wherever she is she knows she has your help should she need it, that’s all you can do. X
