Hiya hope your OK. I’m the same as your bf with a coke problem but it’s once every few week. Or once a week. And I’m trying allsorts to quit. There’s no point in trying to get him help. He needs to admit he has a problem and get the help himself. I’d just sit down and talk to him amicably and tell him he needs help.
There’s a thing called emotional relapse where we overthink things, and cause arguments with our partners, or blame situations for our anger, and this causes us to use. Or basically it’s just an excuse to use. I know people that use for 3 days none stop. It’s a horrible drug, and I want to quit because of the come downs. Basically when it wears off it sends you depressed for days and suicidal thoughts. I’ve known people who have been on this when took their life’s. Sorry to tell u this, but it is the truth. Its all to do with your dopamine in your brain.
There is a lot of things he can do to help him stop. It’s just if he wants to. Feel free to ask me anything