Hope your OK, how has he ended up on heroin in the last 2 year? And he’s 40 now. It just sounds like he has started late if that makes sense. Or he’s hid it longer from you.
I’ve got a cocaine problem and I am doing my best to stop. I’m 2 week clean 2day. Your husband has to want to stop for himself, you can’t force him. Robbing off the family isn’t good at all. Will he go in to rehab?