What was the 2500 debt for though? I have mates that sell it and they go on 3 day benders and have up to £800 of it. I couldn’t do that. But every one is different. My gf says why can’t you just say no to it. No matter how many times I explain I am not her and we are all different she still says this lol.
That’s probably the best way to do it, buy him things than give him the money.
Dopamine will effect his mental health, basically dopamine is our happy and negative thoughts in our brain it’s a chemical. In everyday life we release dopamine in our brain, just general happy feelings, even excitement having a biscuit in our brew. When we have coke, and for example a scale 1 to 10, 10 being really happy, cocaine goes through the roof and hits 100, and at this point it’s used all your dopamine in your brain, then it comes crashing down to minus 100, no happy thoughts, just depression, and suicidal thoughts in some people, this is a horrible feeling. It can take days from this to get your dopamine levels back to normal and negative thoughts gone. Cocaine causes really bad depression. It sends my head west the next day. Sorry for going on but it’s best off knowing than not.
If he’s using say 2 or 3 times aweek he’s going to have mental health or depression. Addicts do this though, chasing the high, always wanting more but it’s never the same as the 1st.
I listen to a lot of cocaine recovery stories and other drugs on you tube, ex addicts talking about what they did and how they over came it, and their stories are a lot worse.
Sometimes it gives you hope that if they can do it you can. I also read a few true stories ex addicts books. These are great as well. And they help me as well.
Do you think he will go back to his meetings?
I’m always here so you don’t need to worry about going on. I like sharing a bit what I have learned as well. It’s a bit weird since I’m not perfect. Practice what you preach lol. But I do my best