That’s a lot to dealers. They shouldn’t be letting it get to that much, but they usually do knowing they will pay up.
Did u give it the dealers yourself? I would of told them that’s it, anymore ticks you give him, you will not bail him out.
He shouldn’t be made to feel guilty, he should just be told its a blip, it happens in recovery and get back on track. I’m sure u can get a different sponsor. On some of them videos I’ve watched some people have had 12 rehabs, and took years, and now are 10 years clean. I guess we all have to hit our rock bottom. Some are worse than others.
Sometimes we Bury are heads in the sand after a split from an ex and just get wrecked for months even years.
There is a great app called pocket rehab for addicts and ex addicts, there is a bit like this all addicts talking about there problems. Ex addicts helping you. U have a panic button that you press if u feel like u are going to use and it puts u through to another addict or ex addict and they talk you round and help you.
They have zoom meetings everyday for addicts on there. It’s a great app.
Just see if he’s OK 1st before bringing things up to him, he might think your pressuring him. Only he can want to change. But do mention that app when you feel the time is right. But this is my opinion, you do what you feel is best for you.
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Thanks for your kind words. I know it’s hard try not to worry to much and get some sleep. I’m always here to talk to, or if you need get it off your chest. Your a good mum
I use to look at addicts and heroin addicts as scum. Never believed it was a disease. But the more I’ve learned, I don’t think like this anymore. These addicts were once a lovely son or daughter, some had bad upbringings, no parents, abused, some had good up bringings but got in the wrong crowd through pier pressure.
And turn to drugs as coping mechanisms. We’re just stuck in a rut, with the same routine day after day. That’s why we need to implement new hobbies to our routine to keep busy.
Sorry for going on lol I could go on all night haha. Good job I’m off work tomorrow. Plenty of decorating to do.