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I’d a cliche but so true that an addict has to hit rock bottom and lose everything before they will realise what it’s done to them. And you trying to make him see sense is pointless. You will just make yourself ill with the stress and worry.

When you say ‘family’ who do you mean? His family? Ultimately it doesn’t matter.. until he walk away he won’t see what he’s lost… because you’re still there.

There are some great self care apps which I found helpful.. try looking for MEND which is good for helping people in difficult times.