Hi so sorry that he has done this to you, I know drugs change people they become so selfish. I’m in a similar situation just that mine has left home and is isolating and ignoring me and our two children we’ve been together 9 years too so many memories but I don’t look at the past anymore read a good thing on here saying look at the man in front of you now sadly that’s who your dealing with. I would concentrate on yourself after putting him first for so many years you deserve that. Don’t dwell on anything he says, and take each day as it comes no one knows what the future will hold whether he will be in your life or not but sometimes we have to let go as painful as it is I’m trying to do this myself and let my partner hit rock bottom as I’ve made contact since he left we have spoke briefly but nothing since so letting him be with he’s addiction I still love him but it’s not my fault neither my problem. Take Care x