Hi!
I see this was posted back in May – is your situation still as it was?
I’m soo glad I found your post though, as I am going through a very similar situation & searching for answers.
My partner is only 2 months out of detox atm though. About the same time we got back together after a 2 year separation. It started off with lots of golden hopes and dreams, promises and honesty, adoration and love. 3 weeks after we we got back together and things started to fall apart.
He’s distant, makes very little effort. We aren’t physically intimate but that’s ok for now – it’s the emotional intimacy that has really diminished, and I’m tired of being the only trying…
He’s so defensive when I bring it up though, and says I’m reading too much into his behaviours right now. It’s exhausting. But now we are at breaking point – if not past it and it’s heart breaking.
If you managed to overcome your situation or it got better, please advise how…
Wishing you all the best!! X