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Thank you will check that out 🙂 it’s so conflicting isn’t it you don’t know what the right or wrong thing to do i never asked to be in this situation neither did he I suppose, but putting yourself first is a must of course especially when you have kids. It just hurts how he can abandon them but they are fine & happy that’s all that matters they have me. I’m going to let him get on with it as I’m always there this will be a shock to him hopefully a wake up call he needs because we haven’t officially said we’re done he has some clothing not a great deal most of he’s belongings & passport is at my house so he’s in no rush to get them been nearly 5 weeks. Xx