Hi Holly and Frankie
I’m so sorry to read your stories, its my son who has the addiction and he lives on his own fortunately.
I wondered if the Icarus trust could offer you advice and support? They often put up posts on this forum,. Also the other threads are very supportive and informative.
You are both good mums, a person with addictions will always blame you. It begins and ends with them totally. They are making these choices and until they seek help, you’ll be going round in circles i’m afraid.
Please look after your own bodies and minds and your children first and foremost.
Take care, always here to chat.
Lx