Thank you Nik ????
I don’t know how this comes across but I don’t think I want any contact from him.. I’ve come to realise that I need my breathing space.
I’m also enjoying having that healing time.
Even through the waves of missing him that sometimes come to haunt.
But I’m not going to be his emotional punch bag.
Wouldn’t it of been great if I had been able to say that I can find someone to contact him.
But his family in all honesty would be throwing him a party if they knew we had split up.
They enable his behaviour because they all have a weird way of looking after each others needs.
A Background in history of Drugs, Alcoholism, unstableness, Toxic behaviour.
Oh and his mother has destroyed every single relationship he has ever had.
Now my marriage.
My family are moral, Christian, stable, forgiving, unconditional love and support.
But they hate my family so what can you do Huh.
Honestly I sigh of relief that I don’t have to deal with his side.
I can’t help him he has to help himself and he has pushed me out of his life.
So my silent treatment is justified because I’m giving him what he wants.
He’s manic depressive but never admits to any of his behaviour.
I pray for him but that’s all I can do.
“Avoiding certain people to protect your Emotional health is not Weakness it is Wisdom” ????
I’m Sorry for everything your going through with living under the same roof as your man.
You brave brave woman..my prayers are with you.
To constantly say he’s leaving and then stays must be incredibly cruel.
Emotional torture is the worse.
Honestly my heart goes out to you and thank you for your advice.
It’s helped because I realise how blessed I am that I don’t live with my man.
Maybe he saved me from all of that.. I was starting to think he just hates me or had no love or feelings for me anymore.
Now I’m not so sure ????