Hi Bellapop
Thank you for sharing your story. I can imagine how angry you feel knowing how you have been lied to and trusting your husband now must feel very difficult.
However, it’s good to hear that he is engaging with the therapy and hopefully the marriage counselling with be positive for you when it arrives.
In the meantime you may like to talk to us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports the family around the addict as we know how hard this can be for people.
If you contact us ,you would be put in touch with one of our experienced trained people who you would be able to talk to. They would listen to you and signpost you to what other help is available for you.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck to you.