Hiya Anon. I am so sorry???? it’s so not fair and it’s so so difficult to try and live your life when all this is happening. I am 25 and find I am never actually focusing on my life and I’m sure this is the same for you.
I completely agree with you in regards to the NHS. I still don’t think they take it seriously and really do think that alcoholics/drug addicts are worthless when in reality, they’ve no idea what they’ve been through or how hard life has been for them to use alcohol or drugs.
I really really hope that you can get your brother into the 12 step programme. It was really good, just my brother needs extra help in addition with alcohol.