Jaynhissy
Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post
Yes he earns enough money to fund his habit
He works 20 hours a week and earns pretty good money
Up until this point he has given us money to save for him
But now that has stopped which concerns me
As where is all his money going???
He does buy clothes/trainers that are very expensive
But that has dried up too
So now I worry that
1- he is either spending much more money on weed
2- he owes money to people
3- he is involved in something bigger ????
Yes he smokes everyday I believe
I can empathise
My older brother is a weed smoker
He is 40 now and still smoking everyday (Yet manages to hold a good And care for his children) yet he def has some mental health issues as a result
However it is not a life I want for my son
And certainly not in my house where I have a 2 & 13 year old!!
I will not enable that behaviour
It is a clear disrespect or our rules and for us
What I’m worried about is if I ask him to leave….. that he actually will!
I have previously asked him repeatedly to stop smoking weed
Not to bring into our home etc
I feel helpless and lost as to what is the best to do for him