Hi Blouise and welcome to the forum. I’ve read your story and wanted you to know that you are not alone in this.
If you click on to ‘share your story’/Theresa thread, there are several of us mums with sons and similar situations.
Everyone is friendly and supportive with each other.
There is also the forum homepage and the Icarus trust who post regularly.
My son is 27 now but I know he has dabbled since he was around 14 or 15. It’s a slippery slope, you watch your lovely happy boy turn into an aggressive, selfish, disrespectful person who only sees you as a cash cow.
In my opinion it’s early days for him, time to change his life around before he gets into serious drugs and gets too dependent on them
Might be good to confront him when he’s fluid or in a fair mood.
Perhaps put your concerns in a text , he might read it when his head is clear.
Finally find time for you and the rest of your family, it’s not worth worrying yourself sick about. Concentrate on your and the family’s well being- its important that you stay strong and positive.
I wish you and your family well.
Take care
Lx