Thanks for your reply
I appreciate it
He actually doesn’t ask us for money
He hasn’t asked for a penny since he has been working
And he does give us money to put away for him (so far)
He has never asked his grandparents either
And he is respectful towards them so I don’t think him going there for a few days will be difficult for them
It’s more for myself and him to have some space as we are not communicating well at all
His grandparents live in another town so it think being away from his friends and contacts may help???
I am hoping we can have a discussion later
But feel I’m at the end of my tolerance level and I won’t allow him to fracture all parts of our household
Especially with you her siblings here
Can I ask how old your son is now?
And how is your relationship?