November 2, 2020 at 1:11 am
#19604
liberty
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Coco1212, this must feel like hell for you, I’m so sorry to hear that you were together for so long before he became an addict, it must feel like you don’t even know him anymore, that must be so horrible. I honestly do think you’re so brave.
If it helps, my bf smokes cigarettes and smashes his pipe as preventative measures. The cigs to pad out his use, the breaking of the pipe to physically stop himself smoking any more. I’d give him benefit of the doubt on those things.
Where could he stay if not with you? I absolutely think he can’t be using drugs in the same house as the kids, that can’t happen at all, but undoubtedly isolation will make everything so much harder, how can you get that balance? Xx