Hi,
I’m so sorry to read what you and your family are going through. I hope that sharing your story and hearing about how others are in similar situations has helped.
I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust. We offer support for the families of addicts which you could access if you feel it would be helpful. We have trained and experienced people who you could talk with and that might help you to see the light at the end of the tunnel! They will let you know what other support there is for you.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck and stay strong for you and your boys.