Hi bumper.ive been rereading your last post to me alot this week.im on holiday in tenerife at the moment and my son has messaged me 2 for money.both times 8ve said no.i have no money to give him tbh now.my husband has rowed woth me this morning saying if I dont cut contact with him.hes not my sons dad.he will leave me.he cant cope watching me be destroyed by him.my son got a job staryed Monday and he’s going the doctors tonight for help which I think is a massive step but my husband says it will blow up.like he’s no faith in him.and dosnt want to see it.hes saying my son can’t even leave me alone whilst I’m o n holiday.How do u cope with your hisband or does he support u completely in your decisions.i cant cut a contact off with my son.i would prefer to know whats happening but my husbands adamant this has got to happenx
