Hiya.thank you for your advice.im so pleased for you your husband is like that.the problem with mine is he is an alcoholic in recovery and cant deal with drama .I dont accept calls from jake if he’s around and rarely talk to him anymore about him but he himself is becoming obsessed with jake sorting himself out.he says he just wants the #old me back#whatever that was.At the moment he is the only one putting z strain in our relationship and I feel really pleased with myself ive told jake no to money but hes adamant I will give into him.i really hope your son can turn his life around and I’m sorry that’s what uve had to do for your own sanity is to block him.if its any help my husband didn’t speak to his own child.son.for five years when he started and kicked off.he was a drug user and has come through it.they have z brilliant relationship now .I think that’s why he thinks the way he does about jakex