[sabin]

Honestly we are exactly same we have give him chance after chance we want to through him out but scared if anything happens we want forgive ourselves we have had 2 years of it but he did get clean for 3 months but the the mother of his son stopped him seeing his son which set him off again . So we are back to square one again . The first time round his brothers helped but they won’t speak to him now for what he as done to us . I wish I had answers for you or someone have answered for us both . Like you we are broken hearted but we just have to take one day at a time . They have got to want to change we can’t make them .x