In all honesty no I don’t think he knows what he’s doing to himself.
I really do need to learn to just leave it but it’s so hard and frustrating. How do you mean police his own rules ?
I have no idea what would happen or maybe I do and that’s why I am like I am.
I guess I’m going to have to be more like you and let go abit. Maybe I am suffocating him but I hate what he’s doing and don’t understand for the life of me what is so appealing.
Thank you so much for your advice and support I am trying to look out just for the children and myself but it’s so hard.
Do you have plenty of support? I feel like your always here for me but I can’t really help you. I wish I could. X