Hi Dawnie, welcome to the forum.
Everyone on this forum has a loved one with addiction.
I really sympathise with you, when someone in the family has an addiction, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions daily for all concerned.
Read the other threads, particularly the Theresa thread, we are all mums dealing with our sons ‘ (mostly sons) addiction.
You won’t feel that you’re the only one in this situation.
The forum has support also the Icarus trust, and there’s people in recovery offering support too.
You don’t have to feel alone in this.
My son is 27 and has alcohol and cocaine addictions. It’s a very stressful situation, mood swings, aggressiveness, large debt, lies, manipulating etc.
He reached out to us over a year ago, he contacted AA, CA, NA went to online meetings and got a sponsor and met others in the same situation. He’s had relapses, but is currently over 30 days clean.
Your daughter has to be the one to admit she has a problem and needs help. Until then, you just have to be there to support her. Don’t give her cash.
Look after yourself and try not to worry, things can change very quickly. Be positive and stay strong.
Always hear to chat
Lx