Hi Deborah,
I’ve been reading your thread. Kellie and Debc have given you great advice. Yes, so many of us here trying to cope with loved ones addictions.
My son is almost 28 has alcohol and cocaine addictions. Reached out over a year ago for help.
Did AA, CA and NA meetings daily, got a sponsor, did the 12 steps program, got a sponsor and met lots of people facing the same issues for support.
Currently he’s 5 weeks clean, unfortunately he relapsed a few times over the year but I believe this happens.
I wanted you to know, I’ve been there too. The debt, paying off dealers, the lies, agressiveness,
, health suffering , warnings at work, etc.
All of the earlier support is back in place, he knows its now or never to get his life back on track.
It’s real hard for them but its easier to support them when you see them trying hard to stop.
Please stay positive and be strong, but no more cash, your lovely lad is still in that troubled boy fighting addiction.
Take care
Lx