I’ve said the same to him before, they don’t seem to realise that their habit affects other people. I’ve told him many times this isn’t just about you, what you do drags me and the children down with you but unfortunately the penny doesn’t drop.
This habit makes them become very selfish in my opinion. And someday as awful as it sounds the only way out of it does seem to be death. I don’t wish it on him really but I do know how you feel, I do know how he’s pushed you so far you say the words.
He seems to be doing OK for now but he’s got a job on this morning and he’s getting money next week so I think we know how that will turn out.
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