Hi Dizzypink,
Welcome to the Forum.
Sorry to read your story, it must be a very stressful time for you and your family.
My son is 29 and he is an addict, alcohol and cocaine, he’s doing ok at the moment, but it’s still a great worry.
I don’t think the borrowing of money ever stops unless you stop helping him. I have leant my Son thousands over the years, one excuse after another, and it’s very wearing, but also you can end up putting yourself in debt and that’s not good.
The Icarus Trust is a place where you can talk to someone in confidence and they can advise you.
There are lots of Mums on here with the same problems with their Sons, read the Theresa thread.
Keep in touch on here and know that you are not on your own.
Take care.
Dx