Hi Ash,
Thank you so much for your reply.
Yes I think that’s one of the main issues – all of his friends do it whenever they have a drink (even if this is just a chilled one at someone’s house) so I can’t even go out for a drink or two with him as I don’t like being around it. I can’t build a future with him as I don’t think we could live under the same roof since he is so irresponsible – he has even had drug dealers knocking on his door looking for his mates due to all of their involvement and I cannot believe he would put his loved ones at risk like that. We are not married with kids so it would be easy enough for me to leave him.
He is patronising sometimes when I try and speak to him about it, saying I’m like a teacher he’s scared to see in case I ‘tell him off’. He also let me down with plans a lot due to being hungover from drink and drugs and I know that I deserve better than this.
Again, thank you for your advice and I’m pleased that your husband is clean now! 🙂
Best wishes,
Laura