Thank you Coco! Xxx
Glad to hear he wasn’t too bad. How have you been finding everything, do you feel you’ve got more control?
He apologised a couple of times on text, which I ignored. He said he didn’t like knowing he’d made me feel horrible. He continued to call me, I sat and watched it ring thinking I have nothing to say. Then, out of the blue his sister text me to ask me how I was keeping – this literally never happens. He said he didn’t know she did that, I’m not sure I believe him. In the evening I felt I wanted to talk it through, let him know how he’d made me feel. He apologised and was his usual sensible and intelligent self, so the anger subsided.
I do still have more doubts about him than I’ve had in a long time. How often do we regret cutting someone out of our lives? Especially if there’s a certain amount of vulnerability to their situation. Especially when they’re such a big part our lives?!
How did you do it? How did you split from your bf? I know he’s still clearly in your life, but how and why, if you don’t mind me asking, how did you tell him it was over and do you regret it? Xxx