Oh liberty for a moment there i felt like it was me who wrote your post. When does it end ? If I only I knew.
He has spoken badly of me to alot of people, quite a few of told me that and that was before and during his addiction. He’s never been one for always telling the truth. And it’s become worse with this.
Yes my children were very close to their grandparents but they’ve made no effort in over a year to see them. No cards or anything for Christmas or birthdays. Not even a text despite having their numbers.
I too ordered him some food but he never came in for it that filth was far more important. Everytime I think we’re turning a corner does he throw it back in my face.
He also does that to me i can see he’s online but he deliberately ignores my messages. Then will make an excuse as to why he didn’t reply.
I don’t believe you are sabotaging your relationship and I think you know that. He is doing that.
This is just my opinion and I hope I don’t upset but I do think your clutching at straws but it’s to stay in your relationship not to leave it.
What is he doing to save your relationship?
Again I’ve said the same if he had cheated it would of been so much easier than this. But I also wonder that while under the influence has he done something too. I read on some else’s post that she believed her bf sold himself to get his fix.
You’ve kept your relationship separate to everything else because you know no one is going to approve of him, it’s not like you can say he’s a recovering addict.
My family have never liked my ex even before all this he’s done some chappy things in past and I always forgave him and moved on but they never did.
I think your your right the burden does become too much to bare especially when the person your doing this for doesn’t do the same for you.
To be honest it sounds like we are in similar boats I can’t deal with everytime he has money he blows the progress he’s made.
To me all this tells me is this poison is far more important then his children and if his children doesn’t come first he has to be alone and just be happy with crap he’s chosen to put in himself. Xx