Hi Skat,
Welcome to the Forum, a good place to share your story and read other people’s stories in the same situation.
It’s great that your boyfriend has actually told you he is addicted and gone to see a counsellor. Is he going to try and carry on and do something to help himself? There are lots of AA and NA meetings on line done through Zoom.
My Son is an addict, alcohol and cocaine, doing ok at the moment, but it’s a real trial living with them, putting up with their mood swings and just wondering if they will ever get back to the person that they used to be.
It’s ok your Family telling you to support him but they don’t know what people have to go through, it’s like living in hell is the only way I can describe it.
I don’t think your wrong to want to leave him, you have to think of yourself first, a thing I find hard to do, but you cannot let them keep dragging you down and in a constant state of worry, because I’m sure they don’t worry.
Keep in touch on here, take care.
Dx