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He definitely does need help but as I’m sure already aware if he won’t admit to his problem or accept there is one then there’s nothing you can do.
There are two big worries here and I am not judging please do not think that. We are all doing the best we can with the addicts we’re involved with. But the two worries are him having the children while your at work and the physical abuse he has started with you.
If he doesn’t want to sleep with you and as he says you’ve not been honest about your past so that’s why he uses has he mentioned moving out ?
The thing is with addicts well in my experience they will use every excuse as to why they use to avoid taking responsibility for their own actions.
I really feel for you. I think you may need to seek advice from other agencies that can help you.
Take care of yourself x