I’ll be honest it is very hard especially when their not ready to admit there’s a problem.
I’m sure he loves his children but he has to realise that if he takes the drugs while looking after the children he’s putting them at risk.
My ex because of who he use to be around got my house raided and social services involved they take drug abuse very seriously.
And if they was to out your husband looks after them being an addict they would take action.
Please don’t think im trying to scare you, I’m only speaking from my own personal experience.
I get the freaking out part because I do it. It’s awful and they have no how we feel and I don’t think they care. It’s all about chasing the fix.
I hope he sees sense x