Coco1212, I so relate! I’ve reached the point where I have to have an airtight counter argument if I’m going to confront my bf, of course, it doesn’t always happen like that.
And I’ve heard exactly the same myself any number of times. Totally out for days and then suddenly he’s had enough, until enough of it has left his body and the serious cravings kick in. Again! Stuck in that perpetual vicious cycle. There must be so much self hate going on.
With my bf he’s spent so long being told people were disappointed in him, anything I say to express my own feelings for betrayal or disappointment just do the exact reverse of what it would do to me. With me it would make me rethink and adjust my actions. With my bf he just hides away does what he wants but away from prying eyes of those who may possibly judge him. Including me. Oh coco, I don’t know, it’s a life isn’t it!
What did you say when he told you no more and he needs to stop doing what he’s doing? How did you respond? Xx
Ah and yes, thank you. Today after 3 days of absolutely nothing, 3 days of my calls being ignored and my texts not read, he rang and spoke for like 10 mins, big whoop. Really knows how to make a girl feel special. At least he didn’t ask for money, food or credit, which I suppose is the lamest positive and if it wasn’t all so sad I may even attempt a laugh Xxx