I do the majority of the time say no I gave in to him a couple of times but he gave it me back yesterday.
I have no idea what he says to them if I’m honest but they seem to believe he’ll come out the other side I’ve told him he must always be honest with his drug worker because it won’t be the worst she’s heard before.
The social worker says he won’t be around for much longer as he’s happy with the way things are.
I hope this is true because although I know my children are in no danger because I won’t allow them to be, I still feel on edge with them around.
I get what your saying with your new place that’s how I want mine to be too when I find a new home.
It’s going to be hard to leave him behind but it’s his choices that have brought us here. If he hadn’t have accepted the local pond lifes here this will make you feel better we would still be together properly and not like we are now.
Why can’t they just accept help and be determined to kick the habit? Why can it not be that simple ?.
I guess for us who has never / would never we will never know. X