Hi lovely,
You’ve got to take care of yourself. If I was you, I would ask him to leave at a suitable time. He needs to understand that you love him and you care about him, but that his behaviour is intolerable and you are unhappy.
If he won’t leave then could you go to your parents on a temporary basis? He needs a shock to his system, and he needs to be shown that you can’t live this way together.
I used to get ‘you can’t control me, I wont be told what to do’ so I get the above won’t be an easy path. He needs to see that you’re not controlling him, you are controlling yourself and taking care of your child.
Can your parents look after your child when you work? xx