thanks for the feedback, I wasn’t sure if I sounded like a snob and over-reacting about the whole current weed thing, as I’m sure if she tells any of her weed smoking friends what happened, they will all tell her she hasn’t done anything wrong etc because they would be smokers too and also argue that her daughter being 20 makes her an adult too, but I still don’t see any excuse from either of them.
I know what you are saying is good advice,
but of course I do still feel that I love her, and feel like by leaving I am giving up on her.
also, when she isn’t in the selfish grip of drugs we are amazing in a way I really never thought possible, so like all the partners of an addict, we cling on to the good side of them.
Also although the kids aren’t mine, I have spent nearly 7 years trying to be a good role model for them too so by leaving I am walking out on that as well, although from how things went the other night, I don’t think my attempts at positive influence have amounted to much after all.