Reply To: Does he even care

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liberty
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Oh Coco1212, I can only imagine what was going through your mind when they said that.

Did they discuss your options for next steps if your bf really doesn’t improve, surely child protection services is only a precautionary measure, because of what’s happening with your bf, just by association.

The big bad wolf! Honestly, you are not your bfs parent, he is not your child.

And where does he expect all this to go? How does he expect it to end. Where does he see himself in 5 years time!

To a degree I think some days my bf accepts that a lifelong addiction means he might not wake up tomorrow. In a way he just doesn’t seem to care. Well sometimes he does and sometimes he doesn’t. I know he sees himself as lucky, especially as many of his addict friends either overdosed, or were killed in a drug related incident. Thinking back I don’t think I’ve ever asked him how that makes him feel and I just don’t know where he sees himself/us in 5 years. I’ll make a point of asking, when he starts talking to be again!

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