Hi all, just checking back in,
I agree the general opinion is that I should run away, But I don’t know if I can turn my back completely.
I do intend to try and stop letting it all get to me though and have basically accepted defeat that for all my good intentions anything I do in the family isn’t appreciated or understood, so therefore I do need to stop putting them first and think of myself more. And maybe through losing that they will realise what I was actually doing and therefore appreciate it.
Also I have this weekend told my parents and both sisters everything, In fact I sent them the link to read my story on here, so that helps as I am no longer hiding her secrets from my family.
They don’t hate her for this though as they very much accepted her into the family but they do of course agree that this behavior isn’t right which is what I need to hear as being in my girlfriends house was making me look like the mad one as seemingly no one else could see a problem