“But my kindness is no longer weakness.
So just protect yourself, and have respect for yourself, because an addict damn sure won’t have any respect for you. She’s choosing drugs over you.”
these words were the best I could hear, the whole text! even though it is not for me, but for our friend, I thank you because it was for me, yes. They have no empathy, and don’t pretend to have it. In the 5 months with this boy, addicted to cocaine, it was just manipulation, she is right! they talk about getting out of it sometimes, but it’s about false moralism. I discovered yesterday that because of his actions since he was a teenager, from what he told me, that he has antisocial disorder, that is, he is a beautiful sociopathic / psychopathic manipulator, and because he does not feel pleasure in a conventional way in the brain, they adapt empathy, adapt reactions by mirroring and go to cocaine precisely because of the immediate and short-term pleasure they do not know how to have. I fell into the conversation that he wanted to leave, he doesn’t want to and he won’t. Think about what she said above, that it hurt me too, in those cases they want nothing more than pleasure and drugs! In this addiction to this woman, she became your drug and you need to understand this abstinence and get out of addiction, facing all the bad actions of her and her children, studying the drug and their handling cycles, that’s what I did, I do yet. You’ve already left 7 years of your life, don’t spend another year. He left me with 5, 6 months, last month, because I was no longer a supply, better this way, they use us, there is no empathy !! it hurts me, but i’m in this abstinence too. And I cheer for you, as for us all here. Get off that drug, stop smelling “her”. You, like me, need a woman and a sober man, who gives us everything we deserve and not crumbs of dust. I suffer for you and me, but go ahead even hurting, out of it, she loves the drug, they have disorders, that’s why they went to the drug. Please send news.