shame your mum gets a bit heated about it, but it is difficult not to,
especially from the outside looking in as it all seems so simple when you aren’t emotionally attached to the situation.
personally I don’t ever drink or take drugs, I just don’t really care for them since around my late teens, think once I learnt to drive I preferred to have that freedom and of course if you drive places you shouldn’t be drinking or doing drugs,
I must say all this puts me off ever doing anything, but at the same time the stress of it all almost makes you need something as of course what do we have to blow off steam, they constantly have their drug of choice when they cannot cope with anything, but we have nothing for when we can’t cope with them.
currently its sleeping at night I’m struggling with,
I manage to try not to think too much about everything during the day and then as soon as I try to sleep my brain just won’t shut down, and I dwell on it all.